Happiness looks good on you

There is always another way. There is always a new choice you can make to create a better life for yourself! (May 31st 2026)

There was once a man, and the man was good. The man was honest and kind, but he also had a secret. The man believed he was not good enough. He found problems in the way he spoke, the way he looked, and the way he interacted with his boss. The man would know, even before the morning had started, all the places in the day he would feel this way.

But there is more to this story, because the mane was also scared - so, so scared of stepping into his powers and leading a life of harmony, balance and joy.

I say 'scared', but the man would say he just didn't know how to do it, for all he could focus on was his shortfalls and everything he believed to himself he was 'bad' at... So he would get up in the morning, get to work, spend the day there, come home in the evening to a life he didn't feel he knew. When pushed, he would say this is also not the life he wanted.

How come then, he never took a moment to change?

Simply answered, the man didn't think he had a choice. He believed life was to be lived through everything that is wrong, rather than see that he had a choice. There is always another choice, and always another way. Question is - what are you tuning in to? The belief in fear and limitations? Or in the power you already have to create the life you really want for yourself?

What I said to the man was - Find a way to create a life you'll fall in love with.

In other words, step away from the belief that you came into this world to suffer, or that your life story up to now is the one that is going to dictate your life moving forward. Everything that is not working for you right now is just a lesson meant to guide you into your own promised land.

Let's say, for example, that you are looking for a job. You may be in a job already that you want to change, or you've left a job you didn't like. In any case, you are on the market for change.

Your habits and negative voice will guide you to look for the same kind of job, regardless of whether or not you truly liked it. You'll find yourself saying things like:
- It's the only thing I know how to do
- It pays the bills
- I'm too old to start or try something new
- I wouldn't even know where to start (looking for something else)

And these 'arguments' are of course valid, but as we already said, there is always a choice, and always another way.

So you can decide to start by creating a different timeline for yourself. Instead of thinking about everything with urgency and desperation, take your time to look at the bigger picture. For example:

- I want to do something else in my life. As I don't think I have anything I can do right now, I can either find a new temporary job, or go into the same line of work I was in before, AND at the same time, apply for studies or an internship in another line of work I am attracted to.

- I know that if I study something new, I will have to start at the bottom of the ladder, but I am choosing something that truly touches my heart, so I know I will be happy there, and that soon enough I will be able to get up the ladder and get back to similar levels of income or comfort.

- I know this is an opportunity to look deeper into my values, my ambitions, my aspirations and take a really good look at how I live my life, knowing that true happiness doesn't necessarily come from richness, but from doing what feels real, giving, and true (what I like to call, living through harmony, balance and flow).

- Now that you have some more clarity, you can start by putting timelines in place. For example, if I find a temporary job that pays the bills, I can take a year out to study. When I start my new job (be it as a self-employed or an employee), these are the things I want to achieve: salary level, better work-life balance, create more time and opportunities for family, friends, hobbies and giving back to the community. In other words, you really are tuning into your choices rather than the forced notion that you should always do what you've always done - especially if you never actually liked it.

Now apply the same to other things that hold you back in life - relationships, health, finance, etc.
- tune into the bigger picture
- stop thinking in all-or-nothing terms
- create smaller streams that would lead into your main river - more streams of income, more friendship groups, new avenues that help you tune into what you want, rather than what you feel you must do.

Whenever I do a healing work on someone, I always send an email after saying that, in their processing time, they should tune into their energy and needs. Very often, people ask me what I mean by that, and the answer is always the same: try to stop blocking what you feel is right for you right now. Sure, there are chores and obligations, but there is also time for self-care, letting your hair down, and taking a few moments to make yourself a priority.

Life can be challenging, hard, frustrating, annoying and a whole bunch of other negative adjectives. But the wise person is the one who takes the information they have and finds a new path to create a better situation with new options for themselves. Remember that there is always another choice and always another way, and if you're not currently feeling like you are where you want to be in your life (granted, we are all works in progress), this is the message you've been looking for - it's time to create the life that makes you happy.

If you need help finding your path, then feel free to get in touch! :)

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This week, I want to introduce you to a woman (I know many of you already know her!!) who changed everything I knew and understood about pain and suffering in our individual lives.

Anita Moorjani was brought to the hospital to die of stage 4 cancer. While in a coma, she experienced a near-death experience and the lessons she learnt while meeting the spirits of loved ones changed everything!

Spoiler - she woke up the next morning and was completely cancer-free nearly immediately after.

If you are going through any pain, illness, disease, etc., I recommend you watch this interview.

Link is here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=snV0pXF1i8U

Dottie's Corner

My person is under the impression that a regular beauty routine is a must for a dog like me.
I want her to know that I am not just A dog, I'm THE dog, and shoving salted water in my face-flap is more torture than indulgence.
So when the whole thing is done, I make sure to give her THIS face, so she knows exactly what I think about that!
Sometimes I also give her the shoulder, but the editor of this newsletter/blog didn't find that print-worthy on this occasion...

I work extensively with people to help them transform their lives from fears, limitations and compromises, to harmony, alignment and joy, or in other words, helping people find natural healing to mind, body and soul.

To chat about your own situation and how my methods can help, please book a chat using the link: https://calendly.com/einav-4/coaching-discovery-call

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