Did you know this, about yourself?

What is the thing you have, that is unique to you and you could do forever, without ever getting tired? Purpose? Meaning? What is your gift?

For as long as I can remember, I was forever asking my mum what I was good at. I wanted to know what was my special thing - like some people were good at drawing, and others at sewing, or speaking, I didn't feel very good at anything much.

So every few weeks, or months, I would find myself chatting with my mum, asking, yet again for her help in figuring out what I was good at.
My mum may have come up with an answer, but what I mostly remember is her saying she really didn't know, and so it was left to me to come up with an inspiration.

For a long time, I drifted. I had odd jobs and I took various courses to see what I could do. In one particular year, for example, I took a journalism course, flower arrangement course AND programming, so you can see the size of desperation...

One day, out of pure pity, I was offered a random position as a system tester for Tesco (one of the UK's largest supermarket chain), where my ex-husband was seeing through the installation of their new checkout and back-end systems.

What none of us could foresee, was just how good I was at it, and in no time at all I was offered a permanent contract, and stayed there for more than 5 years. (If you are in the UK, the change in trade into 24 hours one was my project. I was the sole tester and regularly put in 80 hours week to see it through. Honestly, one of the best times of my life!).

From system testing I moved on in the world of IT. Did my degree in User Experience Design and again, loved nearly every minute of it. But there was a nagging voice at the back of my mind that told me I was just hiding. That I was not put on this earth to look after rubbish web (and system) design and make them better... I was meant for more, and so I put my searching hat back on and kept on searching.

One of the things I liked most in the world back in those days, was to visit the most unique 'street markets' London had to offer - Camden Town! One Saturday morning, as I was making my way into the main buildings, I saw a sign for a palm reader, who was seeing his clients in a makeshift booth at the main staircase landing! It looked perfect to me, and I booked a reading.

Gary was awesome and told me I would have a change of careers and a few more fascinating things, but even he couldn't tell me what my special thing was. I understood this was going to come from well within me, and I probably couldn't outsource it to anyone else (very sad realisation for someone who, at the time, had very very little confidence in herself!).
(If you are interested, you can find him here: https://palmistryinhand.com/

Switching scenes for a moment, earlier today I was chatting with my aunt. She wasn't feeling in a very good place and was sharing some of the challenges she is going through. The conversation then moved on to some other areas and then I had to stop her and ask her if she was noticing anything about the changes in her energy.
She hadn't noticed, but when she was talking about her 'problems', her energy was low. Below 3 on a 1-10 scale. When she spoke about her intuition when helping her grandchildren overcome mental and emotional barriers, her energy was close to 10. She was in her element and she didn't even know it!!

When I pointed it out, I said something I don't say often, but might start now and it was that working with young people to overcome fears and anxiety was her GIFT and it wasn't hers to keep!

The transformation was so immediate and so profound, that looking back at the troubles she had mentioned to begin with, these were no longer on her radar! She wasn't interested in recycling struggles now that she was reminded of her focus.

And I am telling you this because somewhere inside of you is a gift waiting to happen. A gift that brings you energy and fills you with a sense of purpose and knowing that may have never been there prior.

My aunt said - I now know exactly what I must do, but I have no idea how to make it happen. I reminded her that 'knowing' can only come from experience and as she's never done this before, the knowing box is empty. It's time for her to get out there, talk to people, get inspired and plant some seeds that will show her the way to where she needs to go next.

When I just started my coaching business, I only knew three things. First, I was good at what I was doing. Second, I was meant to work with people about understanding their fears and negative conversations, and third, I was meant to do this with people who are either suffering from chronic conditions OR people who feel stuck in their lives.

My mum couldn't have known this back then in the same way that I couldn't. I had to trust that whatever I was meant to do would show itself to me when the time was right, just like it did.

Back to the question at the top... do you have an inclination of what your gift is? The thing you could do for hours on end and never get tired?

But if you don't, I suggest you take a moment to separate between your mind (pressure) and your heart (trust) and follow your energy. Something is waiting to come out; all you need to do is switch off the tap of fears and self-deprecating talks and feel into a step that will take you forward enough to get this started.

And as always, if you need help figuring this out, you are more than welcome to book a session with me. It will be my pleasure to be there with you!

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This week I also had the pleasure of interviewing Miriam Segal about 'Overcoming Self-Imposed Barriers For Healing':

Today, I am delighted to host Miriam Segal, a psychotherapist, coach, psychic medium, and healer. In this episode, Miriam shares profound insights from both her personal and professional journey, emphasising the power of embracing our current circumstances for personal transformation.
We delve into the story of Christopher Reeve, exploring how acceptance of seemingly insurmountable challenges can lead to unexpected personal growth. We also discuss the critical role of mindset in finding joy and freedom, even in the face of limitations. Miriam recounts her own experience living with physical constraints and how she turned them into opportunities for deeper understanding and happiness.
Together, we explore themes of self-acceptance, the importance of intrinsic happiness over external achievements, and the potential for rapid transformation through changing one's perspective. Miriam also touches on her unique therapeutic approaches, including EMDR and action-based methods, to help individuals uncover and move past deeply ingrained beliefs and self-limitations.

More about Miriam:
Miriam Segal is a transformational life coach, a «born that way» psychic medium and healer, and a licensed psychotherapist. It was so important to Miriam that her clients got as much as possible out of her sessions that she went back to school to take a second Master’s degree. She did research on and developed The CEA Method™, an experiential approach she uses to create greater opportunities for you to transform and live your heart’s desire more quickly and with less pain. Miriam adapts her approach in sessions as needed using a tailor-made combination of her skills, her abilities, her experience, and her schooling in order to meet your needs and challenges in the best way possible.

Social Links:
1) https://www.centremex.com
2) / rapidrisegroup
3) / @miriamsegalcentremex
4) / centre4masteryexcellence
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Dottie's Tip Of The Week

Sometimes it's not at all about you, but about the other person you're with.
Can it be that the other person made to be seem about you, but actually and secretly they are hoping for this themselves?
In this picture, who needs a cuddle more? My HUMMAN is making it about me, but I am more smarter than they think and I know it's about them.
So I give in - it does me no harm!
Also, I might even get an extra treat afterwards, which is always nice!

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